Funny how when you get your feelings hurt about something but really your the only one who cares about it.
Don’t expect others to make you feel better or to bother to speak to you about it. They have a totally different opinion and perspective on what occurred to make you butt-hurt! If you believe they are good friends and worth a conversation then go ahead but don’t expect anything and you won’t walk away with more feelings of being butt-hurt. I have gone through a lot of people who I thought were friends but they were actually lessons that I needed to learn.
Someone once told me, people come into your life for a reason, a season or lifetime. WOW!!! This totally makes sense. I have learned a lot from people who I thought were really truly friends and then they totaled made me think…do I want a friend who talks and acts like that? If they treat her or him like that…would they treat me like that? The answer is YES!
You want people in your life that care about you everyday, not when it convenient for them! You want people to lift you up not tear you down or make fun of you. You want people to see you and accept all the flaws and stupid things you say and do. You want people to look at you and tell you the truth without making you feel bad about yourself. You want people to go out of their way for you and you in return go out of your way for them.
This is truly a friend and if you have one…remember they hurt just like you do!
Be a good person and you will attract good people!
Peace out!
